Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How to be friends with your ex?

How does one become friends with an ex when you're still in love with him? I want to be friends with him so that we can get close again and maybe things will spark again. Good tips? How to be friends with your ex?
You cannot be friends with an ex when you are still in love with him. It is impossible. I understand what you are hoping will happen but unless you are made of ice you will be hurt over and over again when you are around him because you still love him. You will take every little gesture and wear yourself out wondering if it means he wants you back or, worse, he will break your heart all over again when he does or says things that show he is no longer in to you. He will also start to see through it because, again, unless you are made of ice you will have reactions around him that will show him you still love him and he may be very uncomfortable with that. The best you can do is make a clean break, grieve the loss of this relationship and eventually move on. Some people do become friends with their ex over time but not while they still have feelings for them.How to be friends with your ex?
well, for me an ex is an ex for a reason....





so i really have to think about it over time if i do want to get back with her.





i guess it's start with forgiving your ex, and then forgiving yourself...





then the next step is the hardest, responding to forgiveness.





what will be your attitude toward your ex? will you have a different and more matured relationship with him now that both of you learned from your past mistakes? or will you be like what you were before?





start with forgiveness, then with friendship and respect...
Do not push them emotionally.


Do not get all over them.


Do not make them think you are stalking them.


Be nice, be cool, be there when they need you, but at the same time keep some distance.





On overall, act like a real friend, with an erotic touch.
You have to ask the question why he is an ex?


You'll just have to talk to him like you do to all your other friends, if theres a spark there then you'll know, itll either go one way or the other





Good Luck

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