Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Is it 'OK' 2 be friends with your ex w/o sparking that old flame?

Heres the deal, me and my ex-bf broke up right before school let back in. we went through this ';no communication'; phase where we didnt talk @ all 4 about 2 weeks(like pass each other in the halls w/o a hello). then i called him out the blue(broke da ice)....and we talked about what happened.... and are like literally da best of friends again. so i tell him everything and he tells me too, but he some how hates me talking about new guys in my life and advises me not to get involved with them....we often discuss our past relationship, and he makes it so obivious that he still ';loves'; and still says it, and tries to get us back 2gether....deep down i think were meant to be together and still love him too.....but im young and (honestly) am not ready 4 a 'serious' relationship...wat should i do (we already talked about everything and how we feel still)....im confused ,should i....idk...any advice or anyone an a similar situation, i would truly appreciate it...thnx!Is it 'OK' 2 be friends with your ex w/o sparking that old flame?
Be honest with him and tell him that you're not ready for more. You don't have to share the information about other guys if it makes him jealous. Just do what it takes to have a great friendship, and stay within the boundaries you're comfortable with. He will have to accept it for whatever that may be if he doesn't want to lose you. Down the road, if it's right, it'll work out if you both handle this situation properly.
  • sensitive skin
  • company
  • No comments:

    Post a Comment