Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How can you be friends with your ex?

How can you be friends with your ex when you went out with them for over a year and then he wants to be friends...I mean, how can you do that? is he being selfish?


I honesty can't do that..what should i do?How can you be friends with your ex?
I dated my ex for 2 years and we had a BAD relationship. After about a year I got in touch with him because i was totally over him. Now we talk every 6 months or so (he lives across the country now) and hang out when we can. Its a great relationship when you knew someone so well, saw all their worst sides and can still appreciate the person they are. But it takes time, I think its silly to expect to be friends right away.How can you be friends with your ex?
It's not a really selfish thing to ask for in my opinion. Once you get over someone, if love no longer exist, it's completely fine to have friendship. I personality find it to be pretty easy to maintain. But if you can't do it, you can't do it, just tell him that. It will be fine. Everyone is different. Since it's your life, you make the decision that will be the best for you. :)
haha, thats kinda funny! today on the bus home from school (im 14) some girl was talking bout how her and her bf, who she loved, r now friends and some girl asked how she could do that and she said that once u love someone, u realize that u cant live without them, even if they cant be ur bf, so u accept them as being just a friend. hope that helps! try being friends, if it gets too hard, just explain to him u dont think u can, he'll probably understand. good luck!
i guess some people r capable of it.. but not all.. if u fall under the 'no category' - dun force yourself cause it will be articial %26amp; hypocrisy.. %26amp; such friendship will definetly lack sincerity, jus be honest %26amp; tell him no u r not interested in being just frens. It will be btr for u to move on..
get over him and move on maybe later he will wanna go out with and then be friends what i did is just moved on and let him go good luck

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