Being friends with your ex-gf?

i detached myself from my girl bcuz she had to move to spain to study. i soon realized that it was the biggest mistake i ever made.


they say, 'if you love someone let them go. if they return, it was meant to be.'


i tried it. didn't work. we still email each other 'as friends' so she says.


how can i get her to be more than just friends?


i love her so much and it hurts even after a year.


ladies, please help me.Being friends with your ex-gf?
Why not take a 'suprise' trip to Spain? I know that's a lot to ask, but it would be pretty cool. She'd be very suprised and flattered to know you'd travel so far, just to see her. (it's romantic to me) You might want to take into consideration, that online relationships don't really work, as you can see now with emailing. You'd have to move to Spain, or go visit her in Spain and really work your magic to get her to move back to where you live. Or figure out some way to see eachother every so often, but that sure does add up, doesn't it?





If you can't do that, why not try to call or get instant messanger? Try telling her about how you feel about her and if you could even meet up again. See if she feels the same and go on from there.





Best of luck.Being friends with your ex-gf?
I've heard that saying also but if that really is true if she truly still loved you too she wouldn't be E-mailing you she would be calling you or something else, she'd try to talk to you or see you as soon or as much as possible. I'm sorry but i think it's time to let her go so you and her can go on with your lives. Because i said this don't stop being friends but all I'm saying is that after a year although it'll be REALLY hard you have to let her go and try to stop loving her so much.
i really cant help you much but i just did the same with my man and i fill like crap i broke his heart he let me go so i can go to college. but i miss him so.


so you need to tell her how you fill before it is to late and she gets tired on wateing on you to tell her how much you care for her. if she is in town spend time with her dont push awayit will only make it worse. if you belive in god ask him for all the help you can get.
u love her, u just got to be patient. she's basically telling you you're the man, and that she isn't into commitment.





what could happen is that she grows up a little in a year or two and then you'd be first in line. but there's no promise so that's why she says ';as friends';.





for some reason girls can do that. it's one of the perks of being female i guess. they have a talent to separate friend and lover. it's ';relationship logic'; that goes over dudes' heads.





oh and remember you are the one who detached, which she may have agreed to, and so it's her right to classify you as a friend. you might be lucky some girls would just forget about you and dedicate their energy to the next dude.
I've been in a situation just like that man. It's best to just forget about her. You might come across as clingy which pushes her away further. Either way, you clearly want to be with her, and unless you move to Spain, it's probably not going to happen. Just cut off contact with her for a while. I know it sounds sucky, but it's the best thing to do for yourself.