How to become friends with your ex?

after a messy ending. Lets just say circumstances mean we can't be together. I miss and I do want to maintain JUST friendship with him. I want to speak to him but his sister got involved and told me to leave him alone. I wonder what it has to do with her??? Ok we did wrong we had an affair. What business is it of hers???


We're both adults. So why did she tell me to stop contacting him???He said he would always consider me a friend..........How to become friends with your ex?
Whatever went down doesn't concern his sis. On the other hand, it's best to leave it alone, and move on.........鈾モ櫏How to become friends with your ex?
You can't ... either you will come across as all 'clingy' and desperate and he will run a mile ... or he will use you for a free screw whenever his new girlfriend fails is unavailable ..
WHY WOULD HE CONSIDER OUTRIGHT LYING SLUTS FRIENDS? HE WAS AQUAINTENCES WITH LYING SLUTS BOYFRIEND AT THE TIME REASONS NO WHERE NEAR SEX WITH THE OUTRIGHT LYING SLUTS --SO AGAIN WHEN A 4FT NOTHING PIECE OF **** EMPLOYEE STEALS YOUR CELL PHONE AND DESKTOP PC HARDDRIVE --WOW WHAT A CONSPIRACY --TAKE YOUR FRIENDSHIP PLEAS AND SHOVE IT WHERE A MILLION SHLONGS HAVE BEEN EXCEPT MINE YOU BUNCH OF PATHETIC LYING WHORES!
hiya, don't listen to his sister,talk to him ,and sort things out.its none of his sisters Business.xx
An affair suggests to me that there was something else that should not have been...... a marriage perhaps? If this is so then maybe she has a point.





Personally I feel if it is over then accept it is over and time to move on.
Contact him one way or another and let him know about his sister's interference. That will give him a chance to clear up the matter.
how can she stop you? if you two want to go there do it .....ex's are ex's for a reason push forward girl .
Are you serious? HIs sister is more pissed because she feels you did her brother wrong and as long as she knows about it she will always be involved! If he is not contacting you back then forget about it and move on. He obviously told her about it and wanted her to handle you!





OMG! he told you, you will always be friends when he liked you! its called ';pillow talk';. He has changed his mind and moving on as well as you should. As a women please don't waste valuable time on someone who is not giving you the time of day. Your worth more than that. Take one for the team and learn from having an affair and getting caught!
I'm sorry but you are full of bs.





You should try reading what you wrote and the answer should slap you across the face it is so obvious!





You are trying to creep closer back to him under the pretence of being friends when you clearly feel much more strongly than that.





You are way too emotionally involved for you to ever just be friends and the past hasn't gone away, it is still there.





It is only going to lead to hurt for one or both of you.





His sister is clearly just aware of the entire situation, from her brothers pov anyway, and she loves him and see where this ';friendship'; of yours is heading and doesn't like it.





Ex's are ex's for a reason!
Personally, to me, being friends with an ex is bad news. And you said yourself that your relationship was an ';affair';...you didn't hurt enough people the first time around? You gotta go after the rest now?
is her sister his secretary that u have to go through before u get to him?