How can you become friends with one of your ex boyfriend?

Okay, well one of my ex boyfriend still hates me from when we broke up. %26amp; im tryin to b friends with him but he just doesnt seem like he wants to.





So the question is, how can i make him and me be friends again or for not him to b mad at me? How can you become friends with one of your ex boyfriend?
I'm in the same situation. Just ask him..';Even though we been through alot of crap, can we at least be friend?'; Something like that. %26amp; if he doesn't want to..SKIP HIM!How can you become friends with one of your ex boyfriend?
My suggesstion is to talk to him as you can. Talk it out as to why you broke up and what you guys can do to become the friends that you were before (?). This is about as much that can be done without some mystical mind control. Communication is your best tool, use it wisely!





If he still doesn't want to be friends give him time. Depending on how recent you broke up with him he may still be feeling those burns. Some people take a long time to cool off and some take even longer. But if you really want to be friends with him again have patience and give him the space he wants until you're both ready to go back as you were.
Lots of people ask this question,everyday. The best answer is, buy a box of kleenex for the crying jags, and call and leave a message that you will be there if he wants to be friends and you hope he knows you still care for him as a friend.


That is really all I would do. Maybe I am not so bold and daring.


But that is the only respectful way to handle it on your side. If you never hear from him again, or he replies that he still hates you, then buck up and grab those kleenex, cry, and move on. You will make new friends. He wasn't interested in being a ';friend';. At least, not right now. Maybe next year, or in 10 years, but not right now.
Give him time its all you need. Just remember that people choose to be mad you dont make them be mad. OKay? Dont worry about him. I was reading this article in a magazine and it said how dificult it was for an ex bf and gf to be friends even though they say afterward '; lets be friends'; At first you become friends, and then later the talking stops for a while. Until both of you are aware that there are no feelings there, then it will be okay to talk. Or else you will recall all the things you went through and the situation might get worst.





good luck and dont think too much about him. i know you care


but guys come and go. you'll find someone better [[:
Its probably not that he is mad its more like he was hurt bad and because you caused him that pain he still has harsh feelings towards you. Some people overtime will out grow this and move on and become good friends. Others never will and it might be that you guys will never be able to have a friendship.
He's going to be mad at you until he stops caring about you anymore. When he gets to the point where he has no more feelings for you then you can possibly be friends, but don't bring up the past.