What efforts would you make to remain friends with your ex-bf?

I picked his classmate but him after knowing him for one month, which hurt him badly. But we were really good friends, and I dont have romantic feelings for him now, also I broke up with his classmate one year ago.





I really really want to be friends with him as we both are sweet persons. I made some sweet and sincere efforts telling him that I want us to be friends. He said he still likes me, and it looks hard to be back as friends.





How did you guys handle this?What efforts would you make to remain friends with your ex-bf?
When it's over, it's over. If it looks hard to go back to being friends,don't do it. Then you have to deal with all those heartstrings and all those old feelings resurface. This can be confusing. It's not a good look. Just be cordial to him and move on.What efforts would you make to remain friends with your ex-bf?
i would make occasional calls to see how he is doing; but remaining friends is highly unlikely.
I think thats totally not possible. when you have loved someone so much you cannot longer see that person as a friend. You can take care a friend, you can miss a friend but when someone has been in your hearth is different, youll be always specting something from that person and that is not going to be a true friendship because, frends are there no mather what you dont spect anything from then unless you ask a favor... In my point of view, thats all.
Me and my bf just broke up, and really he wanted to remain friends. It just amazes me how he's all cool and be a real friends with all of his exes. I think it's hard for me since I still have feelings for him. After the break up, we still hangout with our mutual friends together, and it was really awkward. lolz. And when we got a moment alone, all I wanted to do is holding his hands and what not. Anyways, I just thought that I'm in your ex-bf's shoes and I think it's abit uncomfortable for him. Just give it some time.
Theres nothing better than giving time some time.


He will see that it's better to have you as a good friend than nothing at all, Just be there when he is ready.
Why should he want to be friends with you? You broke up with him. He's under no obligation to have to have anything further to do with you AT ALL. Deal with your guilty conscious on your own time - not his. If you're such a ';sweet'; person, you'll leave him alone and let him have time to heal.