I am perfect for this question because me %26amp; my friends had pretty much this EXACT issue (except we r girls so kinda the oppposite) Lets start with the easy stuff... How do you stop thinking about her? Stop hanging out w/ her for about a week or so %26amp; u 2 will start growing apart also stop texting, emailing, facebooking, myspacing, and calling. TRUE SEPERATION. If you want 2 get really fancy start hanging out with another girl (this is what i did %26amp; it works great) She doesnt have to be potential gf material just a good friend that has boobs %26amp; can get ur mind off that perfect body and everything amazing about ur ex.
How do you stay friends w/ her w/o it being awkward? Well... this is kind of a paradox from wat i just said but hang out w/ her as much as possible.. its kind of hard 2 do both @ the same time i know but hang out w/ her %26amp; a group of people NOT JUST THE 2 OF U! I recomend for the first week or so only see her in person if you have too and dont use technology to get in touch remember TRUE SEPERATION.. its a neccessity get that girl of your mind.
She is also probably going through the same stuff you are so after a while if things are going good talk about it. In person... Not over text or some form of technology (this includes talking on the phone) that is SO PATHETIC (haha i have done this before %26amp; it gets you NOWHERE!) so dont do that...
Hope this helps %26amp; remember technology is bad no matter what people say.. technology %26amp; relationships are 2 words that DONT go 2gether...Ever been dumped? Still friends with your ex?
Its only gonna work if you dont have thoughs feelings if you do i suggest you get out now and move on. Im friends with a few exs and it simply doesnt bother me if she sees someone else and i dont want to be with her... But if i did i would imagin i would be very jelious and emotional about it so with that im mind you gotta come to your own conclusion.
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