Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Ever been dumped? Still friends with your ex?

I am interested in keeping my ex as a close friend, but I still feel weird about it. I still love her immensely and would marry her. She says it wouldn't work out for her romantically, but wants to stay friends. Any advice on keeping our relationship healthy and platonic? If you are still friends with your ex, how were you able to do it? Bonus question: how do I stop thinking about her?Ever been dumped? Still friends with your ex?
I am perfect for this question because me %26amp; my friends had pretty much this EXACT issue (except we r girls so kinda the oppposite) Lets start with the easy stuff... How do you stop thinking about her? Stop hanging out w/ her for about a week or so %26amp; u 2 will start growing apart also stop texting, emailing, facebooking, myspacing, and calling. TRUE SEPERATION. If you want 2 get really fancy start hanging out with another girl (this is what i did %26amp; it works great) She doesnt have to be potential gf material just a good friend that has boobs %26amp; can get ur mind off that perfect body and everything amazing about ur ex.


How do you stay friends w/ her w/o it being awkward? Well... this is kind of a paradox from wat i just said but hang out w/ her as much as possible.. its kind of hard 2 do both @ the same time i know but hang out w/ her %26amp; a group of people NOT JUST THE 2 OF U! I recomend for the first week or so only see her in person if you have too and dont use technology to get in touch remember TRUE SEPERATION.. its a neccessity get that girl of your mind.


She is also probably going through the same stuff you are so after a while if things are going good talk about it. In person... Not over text or some form of technology (this includes talking on the phone) that is SO PATHETIC (haha i have done this before %26amp; it gets you NOWHERE!) so dont do that...





Hope this helps %26amp; remember technology is bad no matter what people say.. technology %26amp; relationships are 2 words that DONT go 2gether...Ever been dumped? Still friends with your ex?
Its only gonna work if you dont have thoughs feelings if you do i suggest you get out now and move on. Im friends with a few exs and it simply doesnt bother me if she sees someone else and i dont want to be with her... But if i did i would imagin i would be very jelious and emotional about it so with that im mind you gotta come to your own conclusion.
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