Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Is it Morally acceptable to date your friends ex, who is also your ex's friend??

I have a dillemma i'm in love with a guy i set my G/friend up with when he came out of a long term relationship, i set them up 4 the selfish reason that as i was not single at the time i didnt want him 2 be either! It made it easier 2 avoid the inevitable, now 6 weeks down the line, my partner and i have split and so have my friend and the guy. This guy is also, by association my ex's friend, and my brothers best mate! I'm in a fix because a few days ago he told me how he felt about me, we talked about how things should go and because some people thought they knew stuff and threatened 2 tell, its all come out. My ex hates me, understandably, and my friends have all fallen out with me over hurting my G/friend, who was dating this guy less than 5 weeks. Am i wrong 2 want 2 be with him???


It seems to me like my friends want me to sacrifice my happiness to make someone else happy. In other words 2 not give it a go with him and be happy because my G/Friend is unhappy he dumped her


HELP!?Is it Morally acceptable to date your friends ex, who is also your ex's friend??
tl;drIs it Morally acceptable to date your friends ex, who is also your ex's friend??
It is wrong to date your friends ex but if ya have feeling for each, hey, date each other. F**k your friends if they hate you for that, its your choose and your feelings, get a new sets of frien
interesting. there's nothing moraly wrong, but it might feel awkward to begin with.
do what you think right!
It is not immoral. But it is probably not very smart. You risk losing the friendship, which is much more valuable than a boyfriend. You also will have to deal with your ex giving you a hard time, putting pressure on your relationship. It is not likely worth it. Besides, if the guy broke up with your friend, there was probably a good reason for it! If he dumped her, he'll likely dump you when he's tired of you. I'd skip it.
You're creating drama; very unhealthy. This is attraction, not love. Love wouldn't have hooked him up with a friend. Also, why would you hurt your friend by hooking her up with someone you are interested in?! It means the 2 of you will be competitive and that is death to a real friendship. You're not a great friend and it makes me think you aren't a great girlfriend either. Its the selfishness and the manipulation. You need to focus on caring about the people in your life more and less on controling your friends.





Don't go out with him because you don't really care about him. Your friends are just becoming aware of your selfishness and responding appropriately at least in being upset about it.





You don't get happiness by manipulating people into relationships. You had no right to introduce her to him only thinking you would take him back later. Now its a done deal and its your chance to do the right thing.
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